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| 10 Secrets to fullfilling relationships |
| 07.31.04 (1:05 am) [edit] |
I got this from a myspace user named Pong
The first secret? the power of THOUGHT.
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs
and desires.
The second secret? the power of GIVING.
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship, ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.
The third secret? the power of RESPECT.
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"
The fourth secret? the power of FRIENDSHIP.
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must
love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.
The fifth secret? the power of LETTING GO.
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours; if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."
The sixth secret? the power of COMMUNICATION.
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love You." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them! If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you
call, what would you say and ... why are you waiting?
The seventh secret? the power of COMMITMENT.
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When
you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong
one.
The eighth secret? the power of PASSION.
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone, it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and
happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.
The ninth secret? the power of TOUCH.
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.
The tenth secret? the power of TRUST.
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it, one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways
you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask
yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?" If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.
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| Attraction: Where do you belong? |
| 07.30.04 (4:12 pm) [edit] |
Some are attracted by the way he/she carries her/himself. Some are attracted by his/her physical beauty. Some are attracted to his/her sense of humor. Some are attracted to the person's inner self.. and lots of other things to mention.. So, which one are you?
For me, when I find a guy cute. It just ends there. I don't go wild dreaming for a guy with his physical gift. I admire him and within in a small period of time, I forget him. What I like in a guy? It would be the sense of humor and how we jive in things. He should be understanding, open-minded, has a good heart.. etc.. I tend to know the person more and discover his inner self.
So w/c one is you? :wink:
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| How I Became his Kikay |
| 07.29.04 (12:44 am) [edit] |
This entry is about me and my boyfriend. Yep! Like how we met, started as friends, became us.. etc..
Where and How did we meet? bcoz of Chatx Mirc, doon kami nagkakilala. That was around 11-12mn and I was already sleepy. Since I have nothing to do and still I don't want to go to sleep (there was something telling me, don't quit on IRC yet. There maybe someone interesting to talk with) Then there came Marc (using his nick). I even ask for his number. That was not my line. I don't even give my number to anyone. Then we talk through phone and it lasted for hours. :)
First impression.. He's nice even if we didn't have the chance to talk in person. He's voice was sweet. I was starting to imagine his face even if I haven't seen him yet.
Through it all.. We became close. I call him Kuya 'coz that's what I want to have.. An elder brother. We became close friends then he told me I was like his best bud. It really sound nice. :oops:
Feelings? We were posting on a Davao forum and I saw his posts talking to this girl at the net. I got jealous a lil and I started to give him hints but I just keep on telling that it was only a joke.. Until.. My feelings became more stronger and I can't avoid what I'm feeling towards him. 'Till our treatment to one another changed. He became sweeter and we know there's something besides that..
The Gap.. Through those sweet things that you have read.. There was something in our way. We both have our own boyfriend-girlfriend stuff. He has a girl, I have a guy. We were 1month ahead of them. It was hard. I was fighting the feeling but there is something special about Marc.
Had fights? Yep. Bcoz of his stupid bestfriend. Hahahaha.. There was this issue thingie that I didn't like.. somehow, I thought his bestfriend was the real one telling the truth. Naging kami pa nga! But we didn't last long. It only lasted for a week. Marc and I solved things and I never talked to his bestfriend again.
A new begining To make it short. We broke-up with our someones that time. I became his Kikay just this 2004's January.
I told him everything about me and he accepted me for who I am.
Why Kikay? 'cOz we are keeping our relationship to his parents (bcoz of his terrible past) he calls me Kikay to hide my name. Kikay is one of the Viva hotbabes hit song.. Hahaha.. And he told me "kaw kasi ang hotbabe ko kaya.. I'll call you Kikay" As if I'm sexy and all.. Hahaha..
Anywayz, my entry is very long na.. Better end it here..
If you have reached this point, gosh.. Thank you for reading..
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